You know, I fail to acknowledge that some people had normal and healthy upbringings with kind and wise parents who guided them into civilized lives free from too much dysfunction so that the period of youth is not marked by too much confusion or bad decisions. If that is you, mazel tov!

Many of us had a tough time, though, learning the hard way how to make good decisions and how to stop making bad ones.

Either way, you can always dance and know thyself better.